The Orgasm Gap: Why Some People Orgasm More Than Others & Why Orgasms Are So Misunderstood

[Cheryl Nelson]

http://www.collective-evolution.com/2017/03/09/the-orgasm-gap-why-some-people-orgasm-more-than-others-why-orgasms-are-so-misunderstood

[Cheryl Nelson]

In and of itself, it's service to self.

[Kim B]

"Truly the younger folk are disconnected from a healthy moral code and building a better society.  Just looking to get laid is a selfish act, in and of itself."  Yep agree again.  And just looking to get laid is so lower vibrational.

[Kim B]

 "but it does create broken families and a chaotic society.  On this issue, the younger generation is a mess. "  Agree with this.  I saw this imbalance way back in high school.

[Cheryl Nelson]

Physical sex is just a small part.  Intimacy, trust, responsibility, and love are the bigger picture.  Sex without the bigger picture is like a ketchup sandwich.  It's unbalanced and unhealthy.  And, not very satisfying.

[Rosemary S]

In my twenties, I tryed to learn how to love and be loved. I could not learn it at home because my parents were always arguing. It is through different partners that I finally understood that part of me. It gave me stability and the ability to let go. I also discovered what I really wanted in a partener. What I find sad is the thinking that sex is all there is. Sex is the act. Making love is more the real thing. It is where you reach intimay. If we ascend to 5 Density, is it going to be the same or is it going to be a merger of energy.

[Cheryl Nelson]

Sexual abuse has far-reaching ramifications.  I think many women fake it because it's expected.

[Byron wilkins]

One wife and a few girlfriends told me that they had trouble having orgasms because they were sexually abused as children.

[Cheryl Nelson]

Not wrong, at all, Rosemary.  Trust and intimacy builds relationships.  Casual sex does not.  I hope that the defunding of abortions will cause women to stop engaging in casual sex.  There seems to be a notion that this is how to snare a mate, but it isn't.  Casual sex does not breed responsibility and does not create love, but it does create broken families and a chaotic society.  On this issue, the younger generation is a mess.  One of the females in my art class told me that it is quite common for males to text pictures of their penis as a way of asking for a "date" (meaning casual sex).  A discussion ensued in which the participating females all agreed there was nothing romantic about a picture of a penis.  I pointed out that if any recipient of a penis pic reported it to law enforcement, it would be treated as a crime.  Truly the younger folk are disconnected from a healthy moral code and building a better society.  Just looking to get laid is a selfish act, in and of itself.

[Rosemary S]

I agree with you Cheryl. Sex is an excellent manipulator. It is everywhere. It is in subliminal messages in publicity and billboards. To me sex is like a 5 minutes deal. Making love is more involved and it is the sharing of one another. As we age, the orgasm seem like something that belong to the younger generations. It is as if we can only content with tenderness. I am seeing this the wrong way?

[Cheryl Nelson]

Rosemary, from what I've read sex for higher level beings is done energetically, rather than physically, even procreation.  Sex is our society is taboo, but yet used in advertisements and Hollywood to manipulate.  It's time to throw off the mental shackles.  It's a built-in drive, just like eating and breathing and surviving.  There's no shame to it.  But, moderation and responsibility needs to be part.  If people weren't so unbalanced about sex, maybe Hollywood and Madison Avenue (advertising) wouldn't have such an effect on people.  It is used as a form of mind control.